Sleeping
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Sunday, March 21, 2010
Our Labour Story
Finally, the day came when our baby was going to come. I must say with all of the false labour it took me a long time to really believe she was actually coming.
We had planned a hospital birth but by the time the midwife and doula came to the house it 8:00am I was already 3-4 cm and was not leaving the house! So, Sarah was born at home with Brad, two midwifes and our doula. By 10am I was already 8cm. At one point we thought she would arrive around lunch. No such luck, it wasn’t until 5:00pm, because things really slowed down, they had to break my water and then it took 2 hours of hard pushing to get her out.
It was an experience beyond my expectations, in both good and bad ways. The labour and delivery was harder then I thought it was going to be. I know, I could have had drugs and I did ask for them but, we were at home so it was not longer an option. I am really happy I didn’t get them because once she was out the pain was totally gone and it has made my recovery much easier. A drug free birth has also meant Sarah is breast feeding like a champ. In fact, she started just 30 minutes after she was born. She only lost 2oz since her birth with is also great. It’s funny how in the moment it feels like too much pain but once it’s over it a distant memory.
And at the end of the day it was all worth it, our little girl is more beautiful then I ever thought possible.
We had planned a hospital birth but by the time the midwife and doula came to the house it 8:00am I was already 3-4 cm and was not leaving the house! So, Sarah was born at home with Brad, two midwifes and our doula. By 10am I was already 8cm. At one point we thought she would arrive around lunch. No such luck, it wasn’t until 5:00pm, because things really slowed down, they had to break my water and then it took 2 hours of hard pushing to get her out.
It was an experience beyond my expectations, in both good and bad ways. The labour and delivery was harder then I thought it was going to be. I know, I could have had drugs and I did ask for them but, we were at home so it was not longer an option. I am really happy I didn’t get them because once she was out the pain was totally gone and it has made my recovery much easier. A drug free birth has also meant Sarah is breast feeding like a champ. In fact, she started just 30 minutes after she was born. She only lost 2oz since her birth with is also great. It’s funny how in the moment it feels like too much pain but once it’s over it a distant memory.
And at the end of the day it was all worth it, our little girl is more beautiful then I ever thought possible.
Yeah she is here!!! Sarah Marie Ford - Born March 17th
Sarah was born March 17th at 5:00pm she was 6lbs 9oz.
Our first family pic just after she was born. 8 hours of active labour which included 2 hours of pushing! I'm proud to say I did it all drug free. I felt is necessary to say that because I look like I'm on drugs in that pic.
Here she is just chilling after the delivery. Is there any surprise she is has a pink camo blanket.
Chilling with her Dad. Who has been beyond amazing!
Friday, March 12, 2010
Things are moving slowly
We had an appointment with the midwife yesterday and surprise, surprise things are moving along but slowly. It's very possible she will be late as her due date is March 22.
I'm actually happy to know she isn't coming tomorrow. And I have continued to get a break from the daily contractions which is making life much easier. Stay tuned!
I'm actually happy to know she isn't coming tomorrow. And I have continued to get a break from the daily contractions which is making life much easier. Stay tuned!
Monday, March 8, 2010
Weight gain
Why is it o.k. to ask pregnant ladies now much weight they have gained? As if pregnant women are not totally aware of their changing bodies we get asked, very empathetically of course, how much weight have you gained, dear? In other words, you look fat how fat are you? I would never ask a friend after the holidays how much extra lard she was packing. So why ask a hormonal pregnant women?
According to the baby books the average weight gain for a women starting out at a normal weight is 25-30lbs. In talking to women who have had children 30 plus is also very normal.
I guess after my previous comment no one would dare ask what my weight gain has been so I will just tell you. I have gained 25.5lbs to date. I do maintain most of that is the trophy baby I’m going to deliver (Brad says it’s going to be a trophy baby just like in a fishing tournament when you have a trophy fish…my husband ever the fisherman). Plus I think it’s reasonable that six weeks after she is born I will be wearing my skinny jeans….ahh the delusions of a pregnant brain. I will be sure to make a post the day I can fit into those jeans…hopefully, it’s before her first birthday
According to the baby books the average weight gain for a women starting out at a normal weight is 25-30lbs. In talking to women who have had children 30 plus is also very normal.
I guess after my previous comment no one would dare ask what my weight gain has been so I will just tell you. I have gained 25.5lbs to date. I do maintain most of that is the trophy baby I’m going to deliver (Brad says it’s going to be a trophy baby just like in a fishing tournament when you have a trophy fish…my husband ever the fisherman). Plus I think it’s reasonable that six weeks after she is born I will be wearing my skinny jeans….ahh the delusions of a pregnant brain. I will be sure to make a post the day I can fit into those jeans…hopefully, it’s before her first birthday
38 weeks and counting
I'm officially in the get this baby out of me NOW stage! I really didn't think it would ever happen but it has.
Baby Ford and I had a conversation yesterday morning were I explained she has two choices. Either come out or stop the daily contracts. I may have added a few swear words for emphases. But seriously, it’s been 5 week of nearly daily contractions ranging from annoying to “I think she is coming NOW!”
I am reassured by my birthing team that this is normal however an uncommon situation. And I know there are the “ I never felt better then when I was pregnant” women out there. Well, I submit these women were never really pregnant. The stork brought their babies. Unless you have some pregnancy symptoms like nausea, heartburn, swelling or contractions you haven’t “really” been pregnant.
At times like these, when I’m up at 4am brainstorming ways of getting the baby out, I like to reflect on what I am thankful for. So here it goes.
I am very thankful:
1. That we are having a healthy baby.
2. That I have the most wonderful husband. On Friday, night he went to the grocery store to pick up supplies, then made the most delicious meal, followed by tidying the house and full filling my every request. He then successfully enjoyed two days of fishing. Now this is a very smart man. He manages to have a happy 9 month pregnant wife at home while having fun fishing. Men take note, you can have your cake and eat it too!
3. That I’m at home resting. The effort it takes to go up and down the stairs to the bathroom is enough of a work out these days.
At my next appointment with the midwife on Thursday, I get to start the natural forms of induction. No details are necessary. The bottom line it baby Ford is going to be encouraged to come out! I’m giddy with excitement!
Baby Ford and I had a conversation yesterday morning were I explained she has two choices. Either come out or stop the daily contracts. I may have added a few swear words for emphases. But seriously, it’s been 5 week of nearly daily contractions ranging from annoying to “I think she is coming NOW!”
I am reassured by my birthing team that this is normal however an uncommon situation. And I know there are the “ I never felt better then when I was pregnant” women out there. Well, I submit these women were never really pregnant. The stork brought their babies. Unless you have some pregnancy symptoms like nausea, heartburn, swelling or contractions you haven’t “really” been pregnant.
At times like these, when I’m up at 4am brainstorming ways of getting the baby out, I like to reflect on what I am thankful for. So here it goes.
I am very thankful:
1. That we are having a healthy baby.
2. That I have the most wonderful husband. On Friday, night he went to the grocery store to pick up supplies, then made the most delicious meal, followed by tidying the house and full filling my every request. He then successfully enjoyed two days of fishing. Now this is a very smart man. He manages to have a happy 9 month pregnant wife at home while having fun fishing. Men take note, you can have your cake and eat it too!
3. That I’m at home resting. The effort it takes to go up and down the stairs to the bathroom is enough of a work out these days.
At my next appointment with the midwife on Thursday, I get to start the natural forms of induction. No details are necessary. The bottom line it baby Ford is going to be encouraged to come out! I’m giddy with excitement!
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